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Emotional Quotient or Intelligent quotient

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Emotional Quotient (E.Q. ) related with the level of emotional intelligence (E.I.). . Emotional Intelligence is synonymous with the emotional leadership. check out my new website:  www.yadavruchi.com You  will be surprised it is not your I.Q. which is more important for your mental well being  rather it is you E.Q. This term became a popular word when Daniel Golman  ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Goleman  ) wrote the book on ‘ Emotional Quotient-why it matters more than IQ’ . I have heard many people bragging about their I.Q. but when they get work deadlines or any sort of pressure/crisis in the life, they easily crack under pressure. These days stress is a major reason when it comes to mental health. Some experts are of opinion that these days stress level of an average person is similar to the stress level of schizophrenic patient in early 20 th  century. Still, no one talks about how to handle stress? How ...

10 Things that makes Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) happy

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I love coffee and tea. Any time you ask me for coffee, my answer will be yes! Coffee and tea are my vice. Recently, I have researched a lot about Highly Sensitive Person  (HSP)  and found out I am an  HSP . Getting  overwhelmed  in just another expression for me and believe it or not many people like me are more sensitive to the effects of caffeine,  Oh no! Not to worry  :)  My Previous Blog post (  https://strugglevssnuggle.blogspot.com/2020/08/highly-sensitive-people-hsp.html      where I have discussed Being an HSP and now it is my responsibility to bring out another blog post about '10  Things that  make s HSP happy '   A Quiet Place : Be it their bedroom or a holiday place. Reading a book or listening to music and retreating themselves make them happy as a child. Be in Touch with their  INNER-SELF : Reflecting upon self, journalism helps them to connect with their inner-self, wh...

Highly sensitive people/ HSP

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The reason I am writing about is I am a highly sensitive person. Till now I used to think it is not normal to be one. Then I researched about it and below are my thoughts. I am sure after reading this post, you will be as thrilled as me. Highly sensitive person perceives world different than others. HSP is an innate personality trait. Recent studies have shown that 15%-25% of people belong to HSP category. Means it is completely normal to be the one. Contrary to popular belief highly sensitive people are not shy (being shy is a learned behavior) rather the majority of them are extroverts. They tend to be more aware of the environment and therefore process information deeply in the cortex. Which means they tend to be more artistic and  creative. Their spectrum of emotions range from being happy to getting overwhelmed. It is like a sky full of stars can make them cry with happiness, or they can write a poem or sing a song about it. They get overwhelmed easily and t...

PROXEMICS : A Relationship Dynamic

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During this covid-19  Pandemic , staying at home and practicing social distancing has made me realize space/distance acts as major factor in interpersonal communication , Proxemics is one study which tells a lot about it, I have researched about it and so below are my thoughts .. Ever wondered how you can identify who is dominant or boss in office or at home or in a relationship. Just a simple observation and you can click this in just a second. Look at below pictures One thing is common how everything is pointed at that one person, at whom everyone is paying attention may be during presentation or at dinner table. How much work space along with personal space you have been provided for example your manager gets a separate room facing the window from where he /she can look at everyone working. Ever wondered why you have a say or two while watching your favorite show on TV? or a movie ? Ever wondered why only that particular person is allowed to sit on one chair fac...